Epping Relationship Counselling and Sex Therapy

Elke Grolig, MSc
Sex Therapist

Relationship Counselling Qualifications

  • MSc Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy
  • Postgraduate Diploma in Psychodynamic Couple & Individual Counselling and Psychotherapy (TCCR)
  • COSRT Member
  • BACP Member
  • BSCPC Member

Phone Number(s)

07983 976781


Epping Physiotherapy Clinic
267, Epping High Street
CM16 4BP Epping

Relationship Counsellor Summary

Specialist Relationship Counsellor and Sex Therapist for Essex and North London. I am based in Epping/Essex. Apart from running my own private practice, I work as a visiting clinician at the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships (TCCR) in London. My counselling approach is psychodynamic and I use a dual approach (psychodynamic and behavioural) in Psychosexual Therapy. I have many years of experience in the psychosocial and therapy sector. BACP, COSRT & BSCPC Member. English/ German Speaker

Relationship Counselling Fees

Time Couple Individual  Notes
Weekdays, Evenings, Saturdays Fees are discussed before the initial session. Please contact me for details.                    


Fees are discussed before the initial session. Please contact me for details. Home visits possible by arrangement.                                                   




Skype Sessions offered


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Relationship Counsellor Details


The key question in love is: Are you there for me? Can I reach for you and have you respond? (Sue Johnson)

Is this what you are experiencing at the moment?
  • Feeling unhappy and lonely in your relationship
  • Struggling to rebuild trust after an affair
  • No longer feeling desired and loved
  • Sexual problems
  • Constantly arguing
  • Thinking about separation


If this sounds familiar - take the first step and help your relationship.


Relationship Counselling & Sex Therapy can help you to better understand your feelings, make sense of them and use them to resolve your issues. Many couples experience distress and unhappiness at some point in their relationship. Some couples may separate, others stay together and try to work out and repair what has gone wrong in their relationship. I can help you to regain hope and trust that, whatever may have happened, you will be able to do better in the future.


"Couples often wait until very late in the game to seek intervention and by then, one or both may have decided to call it quits". (Benson, L. A., McGinn, M. M., & Christensen, A. 2012. Common principles of couple therapy)


 Don't wait for too long - help your relationship and get yourselves support!


I help couples & individuals with the following issues:

  • Repeated arguments
  • Lack of Connection, communication difficulties
  • Commitment issues
  • Feelings of rejection and abandonment
  • Lack of self-confidence
  • Looking for Mr & Mrs Right
  • Anger
  • Affairs / Break Of Trust
  • Premarital Counselling
  • Parenting
  • Separation & Divorce Counselling
  • Long Distance Relationships
  • Lack of Sexual Desire
  • Painful intercourse
  • Erection Problems
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Not being able to talk about sex
  • Wanting to Start a family
  • Shyness, shame
  • Depression and anxiety
  • Being more flatmates than lovers (I love you, but I'm not in love with you)
  • Sex in later life or after illnes
  • Sexual phobias or addictions


Principles of effective Couples Therapy:

  • Changes the views of the relationship
  • Modifies dysfunctional behaviour
  • Improves communication
  • Promotes strengths


Should we agree to work together you can rest assured to find in me an empathic, non-judgemental and impartial therapist who will value and respect your privacy at all times.


Please call me (0798 3976781) or send me an email. If I cannot answer your call immediately, please leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as possible. We can then arrange an initial appointment.



Daytime and evening appointments available in my Epping practice

  • I am available for home visits
  • I see individuals and couples on a weekly basis.
  • Short- and long term therapy offered
  • Therapy offered in English & German





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